Politeness can be painful
Posted By Kolan Blanc on May 27, 2009
A few hours ago there was a post to the spanking forum of an Internet site called FetLife. A question was presented for discussion: “What do people think of polite spankers?” I immediately thought of you, Erzulie. Here is what I wrote in reply:
“Politeness can be very effective. The pro domme I’ve been seeing for almost a year now is unfailingly polite, unless I’ve upset her, in which case she uses whatever toy is in her hand at the moment to do her talking. When she does say ‘please’ and ‘thank you’, it is said softly but that just adds to her command of the situation. Occasionally, she may say those words mockingly, if I’m too slow to respond. She never raises her voice because she knows she doesn’t have to. All her movements seem beautifully controlled, in contrast to the agitation I sometimes feel when the pain gets particularly intense and prolonged. I love that control, in her manners and in her movements, like the slow clack of spike heels on the wooden floor as she sidles over to the toy rack to select a new instrument. If she hurried, it wouldn’t be so effective. I wonder whether former president Theodore Roosevelt was thinking of a domme when he came up with the phrase ’speak softly and carry a big stick.’ Was the ’stick’ something like a hickory paddle perhaps? Yes, Miss Manners would approve of my mistress. ‘Please stick you bum out further. A little more… thank you.’ WHACK.”
My question for you, mistress, is: Do you have clients who ask you to treat them rudely?
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@Kolan Blanc, I’m flattered that you see me that way ! It does describe me pretty well. Yes I do have some clients who asked me to treat them rudely. I am perfectly capable of doing so! BUT I’m afraid there’s a catch to this. I find myself being pretty uncomfortable and totally silly when a client asks me to treat them rudely by yelling bad names at them. Believe it or not my vocabulary is extremely short in that category. I prefer the sarcastic, mocking, humiliating, snobby and sensual (that is usually when I inflict the most pain) way! That’s what gets my juices (literally) flowing and so far it has been the most effective. I NEVER inflict pain while I’m mad nor do I EVER do a session in a bad mood. So I no longer attract these types of subs. So here’s come the big BUT! I Looove being physical with my subs! So the ones that want to have their arses kick by my feet, hands, floggers, paddles, fists etc… ARE VERY HAPPY SUBS!